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		<title>Influence of your overweight friend on your eating behavior</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 16:05:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cleo</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Influence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[eating]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is often seen that the eating habits of your friends have a major influence on your eating habits. It is a common sight that when you are about to order some low calorie and healthy food, your friend orders some high calorie but tempting dish and you end up ordering the same. It has [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img title="are-your-friends" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" height="300" alt="are-your-friends" src="http://psyblogger.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/areyourfriends.jpg" width="300" border="0">It is often seen that the eating habits of your friends have a major influence on your eating habits. It is a common sight that when you are about to order some low calorie and healthy food, your friend orders some high calorie but tempting dish and you end up ordering the same. It has been proved that the eating habits of friends who are big eater rubs on to you. </p>
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<p>This is not just restricted to food. Even smoking, taking vitamin or flu shots is contagious. A recent study has revealed that having a friend who likes to gorge on food increases the chances of you doing the same by 57%. It is not that they force you to do it; it is something you end up doing subconsciously.
<p>Another habit that has major influence from friends is drinking. It is highly possible that if your friend circle is full of drinkers, you would end up drinking more than you did. This can have adverse affect on your weight, so watch out who you go out to eat with.
<p>However, getting influenced by friends isn’t always bad. It has been proved that you are as likely to pick up the good habits from your friends as the bad habits. So, if you are in a mood to order some fries and you see your friends ordering salad, you are expected to follow suit.&nbsp;
<p>So, basically we can conclude that we should be careful while being with friends and need to be strong and have your own set of agenda.</p>
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		<title>Ways to enhance your communication skill</title>
		<link>http://psyblogger.com/communication/ways-to-enhance-your-communication-skill/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 13:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cleo</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today’s professional world has become highly competitive and only an educational degree is not enough. It has to be aptly backed by a certain degree of communication skill. In order to move forward in this world one has to be very good in communication and it is also a very important aspect of one’s overall [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img title="Good communication skills" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" height="271" alt="Good communication skills" src="http://psyblogger.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Goodcommunicationskills.jpg" width="400" border="0">Today’s professional world has become highly competitive and only an educational degree is not enough. It has to be aptly backed by a certain degree of communication skill. In order to move forward in this world one has to be very good in communication and it is also a very important aspect of one’s overall personality. Good communication skills can play a major role in developing a person’s standing in the society and considerably increases self confidence. </p>
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<p><img title="Good communication skills 2" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" height="412" alt="Good communication skills 2" src="http://psyblogger.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Goodcommunicationskills2.jpg" width="291" border="0">Not everyone is born with natural skills when it comes to communication. One needs to create and develop it over a period of time. If you find it very difficult to communicate with people and put your thoughts across other people, you should listen to people who are blessed with great communication skills. You need to observe them and find out where you are lacking and then work on your weaknesses. However, you need to understand that only speaking is not communication, you need to have the ability to listen as well. That is when you become complete.
<p>Another very crucial aspect of communication is the ability to think momentarily before you respond to someone. Being hasty and trying to reply instantly, which is very common, is a big hurdle to effectively communication. Some other things that could come handy are having a decent sense of humor and the right body language. Reading also helps a lot as it makes you aware about lot of things. Another thing to keep in mind is that you have to engage the person you are communicating with. You need to show that you are genuinely interested and not talking just for the heck of it.</p>
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		<title>Are you too possessive about your partner?</title>
		<link>http://psyblogger.com/nature/are-you-too-possessive-about-your-partner/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 16:08:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cleo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is quite natural for both men as well as women to feel possessive about the other in a relationship. The situation though can be quite a taxing one and may spell doom for the relationship. A possessive partner makes the situation very uncomfortable for the other partner who may find it difficult to handle [...]]]></description>
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<p>It is quite natural for both men as well as women to feel possessive about the other in a relationship. The situation though can be quite a taxing one and may spell doom for the relationship. A possessive partner makes the situation very uncomfortable for the other partner who may find it difficult to handle the situation. </p>
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<p>Insecurity is apparently the main reason for possessiveness in people. A self-confident person has full faith in his partner and does not feel the need to control her or their relationship. On the contrary, an insecure person doubts the dedication of the partner and tries to control their relationship. Their action is aimed at preventing their vulnerability and making sure they do not hurt.
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<p>The feeling of possessiveness and a little jealousy exist in all relationship, however you should watch out and ensure that the situation does not get out of your control. The reasons that make you possessive may entirely be your own and you must make an effort to identify them and resolve them to ensure a healthy relationship.
<p>If you feel possessive for your partner, you should get rid of any fear or insecurity that you may have and work on building your self-esteem. It is important for both partners to avoid any negative feelings and make a genuine effort towards securing their relationship with love and devotion. The feelings of possessiveness in your partner can be overcome by just reassuring your love to him or her. So, let go of this feeling and reignite the love and care in your relationship. </p>
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		<title>Building up your self-confidence</title>
		<link>http://psyblogger.com/self-actualization/building-up-your-self-confidence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 18:35:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cleo</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self-actualization]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Building]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Self confidence plays an important role at every step in our lives. The lack of self confidence may become a major hurdle in attaining success in life. People always admire and look up to people who speak with confidence and answer questions assuredly rather than those who are nervous and fumbling in their speech. The [...]]]></description>
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<p>Self confidence plays an important role at every step in our lives. The lack of self confidence may become a major hurdle in attaining success in life. People always admire and look up to people who speak with confidence and answer questions assuredly rather than those who are nervous and fumbling in their speech. The good news for those who are low in confidence is that it can be learnt and built on with a little effort. </p>
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<p>Self confidence cannot be acquired overnight. It requires dedication on your part to inculcate the feeling that you too are important and a person who is worthy of respect. The first step towards building your self confidence is to identify your insecurities. They can be anything from the way you look to things that make you feel unworthy. Try to write them down and work on them one by one.
<p>Avoid having a mindset that others are better than you. Find out the reasons that make you feel the way you do and focus on resolving the issues before you move on. Plus, try to develop your strengths and focus your interest in various activities. By doing so, you are likely to gain confidence and also meet compatible friends. Be thankful for things that you already have and appreciate them so that you don’t feel incomplete and unsatisfied.
<p>The most important thing for you is to find that inner peace which does wonders to your confidence. Have an optimistic view towards life and never allow others to make you feel inferior. Combat such a situation by projecting your strengths and qualities that will encourage your mind to grow in a healthy direction.</p>
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		<title>Are Your Days Crazy? Take Control</title>
		<link>http://psyblogger.com/self-actualization/are-your-days-crazy-take-control/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 19:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cleo</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Crazy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Days]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[With the growing responsibilities and hectic daily schedule, some of us even don’t get time to sit and organize things. In other words, some of us go crazy dealing with our day-to-day life routines. However, it is important not to do things in such a state of mind, a proper control of mind and body [...]]]></description>
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<p>With the growing responsibilities and hectic daily schedule, some of us even don’t get time to sit and organize things. In other words, some of us go crazy dealing with our day-to-day life routines. However, it is important not to do things in such a state of mind, a proper control of mind and body needs to be taken.
<p>First of all, set some time apart from your daily busy schedule, when you can sit and analyze what is happening in your life and what needs to be done to achieve your set goals. If you can’t set some time in between the day, then wake up early and sit for 5-10 minutes to analyze happenings in your life.
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<p>Second way to take control of your crazy days is by making a list of tasks to do. Take for instance, make a separate folder in your email inbox and gather all the emails that need to be acted upon at the earliest. Similarly, do the tasks that need your immediate attention first. </p>
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<p><img title="schedule on pc" style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; border-left: 0px; margin-right: auto; border-bottom: 0px" height="316" alt="schedule on pc" src="http://psyblogger.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/scheduleonpc.gif" width="489" border="0">
<p>Start planning your day properly to end it in full control. Set time for important tasks like meetings, phone calls and writing. Also, set some time in between for relaxation to rejuvenate yourself.
<p>In order to fulfill all tasks, don’t try to do multi tasking, as this will stress you out completely. Instead, focus on things that are most important and later on things that can be neglected or postponed for time being.</p>
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		<title>Maintain Your Individuality</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 18:47:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cleo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Often in the struggle to impress someone, we tend to lose our own individuality. Some people feel happy for this compromise and some feel suffocated after it. So, if this is the case with you too and you are getting suffocated losing your own individuality, then try to maintain your individuality with the following tips. [...]]]></description>
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<p> Often in the struggle to impress someone, we tend to lose our own individuality. Some people feel happy for this compromise and some feel suffocated after it. So, if this is the case with you too and you are getting suffocated losing your own individuality, then try to maintain your individuality with the following tips.
<p>Remember, that a true relationship is one for which you need not change yourself. In other words, a person who accepts you as you are is your true partner, so instead of changing your individuality try to analyze this. Moreover, you may even lose the interest of the other person in you when you will totally lose your identity. </p>
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<p>Try to maintain your individuality by avoiding to blame yourself for any lose in your personal or professional life. Instead of feeling miserable after a lose, try to think of positive things and maintain your individuality. Instead of getting obsessed with others, try to care for self.
<p>Determine what is essential for you in life and then take the action accordingly. This will help maintaining what is essential for you and your individuality. Always make it a point to strive for personal satisfaction and happiness rather than stressing to make the other person happy with your sacrifice.  </p>
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