This research was conducted for a decade in which men-children relationship and influence was analyzed. Since, childhood, mothers behavior leaves an ever lasting impression on their sons. As a result, when they grow up, they look for a mommy cook in their wife and also urge for breast milk in many cases even in adulthood.

The research was conducted in Italy and a large percentage of adult males were found to be living at home before marriage. The result that came out was that men in majority look for an extension of their mother in their life partner after marriage and they hate when their spouse is different from their mother. They like to see their spouse doing works that they have seen their mother doing such as washing, ironing, steaming, folding and cooking.

Keeping secrets not only hampers the delicate relationship you share with your partner, but it also widens the gap and breaks the trust that you share with your spouse. Thus the trust that took years to build is broken within friction of seconds and you no longer feel the emotion of ‘oneness’.

In fact, experts says that keeping secrets affects health of the individual who keeps secrets, causes problems like pains and aches in the body, and also troubles the digestive system.

Being married, you suffer greater issues by not sharing secrets with you spouse because no matter how trivial the secret is, it definitely breaks the heart of the partner, and widens the gap of trust. In such situations, it is difficult to keep your marriage go normal. Moreover, deceit of such nature also creates suspicion and doubt in the mind of the partner.

One of the most common secrets that couples keep from each other is related to money or finances. Couples who keep such secrets justify them by saying that they have the right to privacy. However, it is just another excuse. So, if you want to get closer to your spouse and make your marriage work better, don’t keep secrets. 

It’s true that marriages are made in heaven but celebrated on earth, but celebrating it either in the form of a love marriage or an arranged marriage is by chance. The young generation is nowadays more inclined towards love marriage than the arranged marriage with a stranger. Read on to know about the pros and cons of love marriage.

Be it love marriage or an arranged marriage, both have their own advantages and disadvantages. The sole remedy to make it last for longer is trust and commitment. Love marriage is done by own choice and chances for disadvantages seem less but this is not the truth.

Those couples who go for love marriages often don’t get family support and even their relatives don’t approve of their marriage. The worst disadvantage of such a marriage is an early break up, as both partners who were in love with each other before the marriage feel lack of freedom.

On the other hand, one of the best advantages of a love marriage is that it gives you the freedom to choose your own partner. In love marriages, couples tend to feel more secured and comfortable as they know the other person well and are also aware of his or her strengths and weaknesses.