You have what you deserve.

Why do we have what we have?

Let me prove you that what you do have now in your life is exactly that you do really deserve or want to have. It is convenient for you to have it, otherwise you might do something with it, but you don’t. You say – “it’s all the circumstances and I depend of it”… it is sad to hear.

Some of my friends, from time to time, complain to their life or work or salary etc… And they seem offended when I am telling that they just do not want to live in a better way. Feel the difference, - not “cannot” but “don’t want” instead. For example, one of my colleagues (she is a sales manager) said me last week that it is impossible to realize sales plan till the end of month. She said - THIS IS IMPOSSIBLE. (How often do you say the same?)

I told he “listen, just imagine that lives of your parents directly depend of this plan realization”

Will you find a ways to sell all u need even more till the end of the month?

She said “I guess I’ll find a lot of ways in few minutes how to sell all this”. But few minutes ago she was trying to convince me that it’s impossible!

You see? If you say “I cannot” it is equal to “I don’t want”. If you know your own examples – put it here, in comments and I am sure it will help someone to review his possibilities.

Just think about it.

Ksena.