It has often been observed that the wedding charm disappears between couples soon after they get married. Moreover, some even have to deal with violence in their marital relationships. It’s a sin to do violence but it’s a double sin to accept such violence from an abusive life partner, so it is important you know how to deal with violence in your marital relationship.

Remember that your silent acceptance to your partner’s verbal, mental and physical abuse is not your love for him or her. You need to fight back to stop it. Silent acceptance will in fact motivate your partner to harass you all the more.

You may go to a counselor and ask for advice from people who specialize in dealing with domestic violence. It may be that your partner is in good mood for sometime, take him or her along when the mood is okay and let the counselor advice him or her to mend his or her ways of treating you.

When your partner tries to abuse you in any form, try to leave the place and come back when he or she is normal. This might help in suppressing his or her anger. Try out to find out reasons for his such anger on you and then try to eliminate those reasons for a non-violent married life