Anger- an emotion that has been felt and tasted by everybody living on this planet is that force which you can either rate as destructive or as constructive. But anger in primary form remains destructive only which will get converted into constructive only then when you start identifying it and learn to manipulate it for your development with your calm state of mind and creativity. It is each of you and me, of course, who has tendency for anger in us that takes shape when anything unwanted happens. It is the feeling of anger that can leave you teaching many new and unfelt things in your life and can leave you totally changed.

If the sources of anger are to be found then that can be many things. Any one of the forces can lead to one’s anger and hence, finding the exact definition of anger is not possible. Some of the factors that give birth to anger are impatience, injustice, frustration, intolerance and scarcity etc.

Human beings feel their anger and then go through it in two ways- one is external and the other is internal. Rage is the external form of anger in which one displays his anger through different activities like yelling, throwing tantrums, by breaking things, running away from places or by physically hurting self or others. The state of the mind in this condition remains totally out of control and neither the ears nor the brain is ready to listen to anything.

Depression is the inward form of anger and it is created when a person cannot show his anger to the world and starts breeding it in his mind. In this state a person gets drowned all the time with his mind, heart and body into guilt, anguish, and isolation and that finally results in depression. An unresolved anger can eat a person internally leading him to get highly depressed.

But if you do not let anger make any loss to you in any of the inward or outward forms then you will start identifying it for utilizing it as a fuel to charge you up and get going for achieving the thing for which you built up your anger. However, this quest for success will have to be paired up with a positive thinking.

Psychologists have found that people use all sorts of self-handicapping strategies to protect their self-esteem. The first is not trying to your best. This is a lucid policy. Not trying to your best means you will fail. And if you fail here is the excuse ready. The main victims of excuses are the people having lofty ego. If you are a super hero then only you can succeed without trying hard.

So the person is influenced by his own talent and more likely they demonstrate that it is very easy for them. Hence self esteemed people are very likely to be prone to self-handicapping. Many of us get confused between excuse and explanation. But an excuse decreases motivation. Excuse is when you blame others for your own fault. When you make look like poor results are better in comparison of others. An excuse is when you don’t expect much from future.

You know your excuses have become a problem if someone faces up to you about it, even in a teasing manner. Maybe you’re known as someone who breaks promises; places blame on others, or don’t accept responsibility for actions or errors. In any case, your standing is the thing that can’t be counted on. To avoid such situation try to stop being an excuse person. Just face the facts, get over yourself and clarify expectations.

First of all, keep in mind that it is not necessary to understand the cause of the problem to solve it. In other words, you need not go to the roots of the problem to solve it. Just a little wisdom can work well with a combination of creativity to solve any problem.

Another tip is to analyze the positive things in your life even in time of distress. To put it in easier words, even if you are in a bad situation, there is something in your life that is moving smoothly without any stress or problem and it will help you go on.

Also, always remember that problems come and go or rather problems are not there to stay forever. If good times have gone, so will the bad times, time keeps on changing. All you need is to maintain patience.

Moreover, it is also important to come of the negativity by thinking that you are not the only one to face difficult times in life. All people in the world face adverse situations in their life some or the other time. 

Learning to develop patience is quite important in life. Let us just look at few such ways to remain calm and be more patient so that we can get the maximum out of life.

One of the most important aspects of patience is to be real and to live in reality. It is not possible that everything will go as per our wish or desire. It is very important for every individual to understand this fact and try to adjust their life according to it.

It is also important to know that you can’t control everything. And life has its own influences that unfold in front of us as and when situation arises. So, since you can’t control situations, at least try and control your reactions to them. Moreover, one should learn to expect anything in life and also be prepared to face it.

Another way to ease off your frustration and impatience is to slow down in life. Simply relax and try to be less anxious. Along with slowing down, try to be a bit more flexible.

Though, it might take some time, but these small tips will definitely help in improving patience. 

The competition is called ‘Calling All Jr. Scientists!’ and it encourages young people to enter a competition, show how talented and capable they are and win all sorts of incredible prizes. A trip to the Galapagos Islands or a scholarship are among the main awards.

The best part – the Google Science Fair is now open and everybody ages 13-18 can compete for prizes, internships and scholarships.

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Under the influence of self-doubt, we tend to put ourselves down in fear of not being able to perform as expected or up to the mark. This feeling dominates our self-esteem in such a way that we loose all hope in life and become stressful. This feeling never let us being satisfied with our self.

So, we should be conscious of the weakness of self-doubt so that we do not let them catch us. This feeling has all the possibilities of catching us at young ages, as it is the most formative years of our life. It makes the child feel negative about all things and aggravates the situation.

We must work on getting these negative vibes of self-doubt away from us. We should make sure that we change all the bad feeling that comes to our mind and discard them. Try new ideas to fight these feelings by boasting self-esteem and getting positive energy.

So, whenever you are surrounded by self-doubt, take a deep breath and feel all the good things around you, about the positive aspects of life. With practice and time you will definitely be able to deal with and remove self-doubt. 

People suffering from this disorder are self-possessed and over confident. They think themselves as most superior and great. Though, it is not that easy to diagnose this disorder. However, as the characteristics in the behavior of the concern person becomes persistent and upsetting, the disorder is diagnosed.

The five classifications that the narcissistic personality disorder is classified into are, Amorous Narcissist, Compensatory Narcissist, Elitist Narcissist, Fanatic type and the Unprincipled Narcissist.

There are several causes that are identified by various researchers as the probable cause of this disorder. It is said that a child with oversensitive temperament at birth is one of the causes. Moreover, overvaluation by parents, or excess praise by adults for perceived abilities or beauty can also be the cause. Excessive criticism, emotional abuse during growing years, etc. can also lead to the cause of this disorder.

The term ‘Narcissistic personality disorder’ was introduced by Heinz Kohut in 1968. This disorder is said to be more recurrent in males than females. Individuals with this disorder have low self esteem and are vulnerable to criticism or defeat. Narcissistic traits are very common in adolescents. However, most of them come out of this behavior during their growing years.

Setting your goals is perhaps the first and foremost step towards achieving your dreams. One of the biggest problems that people face is that they find it very difficult to stay focused towards their dreams. This is the reason why goal setting is so important. It is important to have short term goals so that you can focus on a daily basis and long term goals will motivate to achieve your immediate goals. This eventually leads to fulfilling of your dreams. Listed below are some tips that can help you in setting goals.

Affirm the goals as many times as possible during the day. This you help you stay focused and will motivate you towards your goal. But is it common place to forget it, so rather write in on a piece of paper and read it whenever you have time. This goes a long way in keeping you focused.

Just like the affirmation, write down your goals too. This will help you focus better and help you achieve your goals.

You can create a board-a vision board for your goals. This will constantly remind you of your goals and help you work harder towards achieving them. Suppose you wish to buy a Ferrari, simple cut pictures of the car and paste in a large board. Looking at the pictures will remind you of your goals thus enabling you to streamline your focus and energy better.

So, it is good to have a dream but it is an absolutely necessity to set goals, without which you are highly unlikely to achieve your dreams.

You might not realize but loneliness can turn out to be a real enemy for you bringing in present many uncalled diseases. So, it is essential to know how to deal with loneliness. Remember that there are various reasons for people to feel lonely, once these reasons are found you can look out for ways to eradicate them.

First of all, remember that loneliness in itself is no disease, it is a normal scenario and we all tend to feel lonely at some or the point of time. In fact, if we observe positively, loneliness gives way for new alternatives and opportunities to you to try new things to keep yourself busy.

The best way to get rid of loneliness is to be a part of a get together or invite friends and family members home for a chat or meal. Just share your view points and listen to what they say on different topics to cast away your loneliness within a day.

Another good alternative for dealing with loneliness is to get involved in your hobby. Be it paining, reading or playing a sport, indulge in it and you will not even realize how quickly your time will pass away.

You can also involve in social networking in your society or on the net. This way you get the chance to meet new people and interact with them to pass time in a better way. If nothing else, just listen to your favorite music to come up from lonely feeling.

Have you ever wondered if a man’s IQ has anything to do with his faithfulness towards his partner?  Well, a researcher at one of the leading British universities has come up with a report paper that suggests that there is a definite connection between a man’s intelligence and his fidelity.

The report says that men with high IQ are less likely to cheat on their partners vis a vis their counterparts who aren’t very intelligent. However, the same isn’t true with women. The report has been released after an extensive research on two surveys done in the US and it was established that there is link between monogamy and intelligence.

However, there is a section which doesn’t agree with this conclusion. They believe that in these types of surveys most people tend to lie. In fact, they even went on to say that intelligent men were as susceptible to cheating as their not so intelligent counterparts. The only difference was that intelligent men would lie about cheating. Intelligent men are smart hence they do not get caught easily.

According to the report, intelligent men are faithful because they have more control over their biological setup. According to biologists men are built in a way that they tend to cheat, but with knowledge and intelligence they can control these tendencies better and hence remain faithful. The report also suggests that intelligent men have the ability to overcome ancestral or genetic traits, which makes them strong and they can resist the temptation to cheat easily.