How to Flirt?

By Aditi | May 8, 2008 2:23 pm |
Categories:
Communication,Relationships

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I know these days most of the girls and guys are pre trained to flirt. But there are some who don’t know. You may know how to flirt but you should flirt in right way to enjoy flirting. Sometimes, flirting can get you your life partner. You would require some social skills to attract people.

Tips for Women:

  • You should give clear signals. If you flirt in s-e-x-u-a-l way, you will attract men who want s-e-x.
  • Soft and s-e-x-y voice will put a veil on your looks.
  • If you aren’t interested just deny politely.

Tips for Men:

  • Don’t every try to show you are a space invader. Girls might get terrified.
  • Don’t flirt for s-e-x. Flirt to be friendly.
  • Don’t boast about yourself. Ask her open-ended questions to know her.
  • Don’t give false complements. Sincere complements are welcomed.

Tips for both:

  • Wear smile.
  • Add self-esteem
  • Flirt is for fun, don’t bear grudges if rejected.
  • For a start, complement on clothes, eyes or smile in humours fashion.
  • Look into the eye while talking.
  • Gently touch the person’s arm or hand.
  • When you sense the person is taking interest, ask for a date.

I hope these will help you in healthy flirt. Enjoy Flirting..You can add more points in the comments if you like to contribute.

Something about Women

By Aditi | April 26, 2008 2:48 pm |
Categories:
Nature,Relationships

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It was pretty difficult to figure out minus points in women. Yes! You are right being a girl why would I point out mistakes in Females. But as I promised, here are some things that most of the women feel:

  • If he is protective, she says he oppressive
  • If he is smart, she says you are demeaning my intelligence
  • If he works hard, she says he is workaholic, doesn’t have time for me
  • If he is confident, she says he has ego
  • If he has a bank account, he is great
  • If he says I love You in first meet, don’t believe, he is a liar

Women think men like Govt. bonds as they take time to mature. If they lay the first step on them, they think they can walk over for the whole life. Women too feel pleasure in Adam teasing.

Here I have got one beautiful poem by Thomas Moore, the famous poet.

Women Are All The Same

Away, away — you’re all the same,
A smiling, fluttering, jilting throng;
And, wise too late, I burn with shame,
To think I’ve been your slave so long.

Slow to be won, and quick to rove,
From folly kind, from cunning loath,
Too cold for bliss, too weak for love,
Yet feigning all that’s best in both;

Still panting o’er a crowd to reign, –
More joy it gives to woman’s breast
To make ten frigid coxcombs vain,
Than one true, manly lover blest.

Away, away — your smile’s a curse –
Oh! blot me from the race of men,
Kind, pitying Heaven, by death or worse,
If e’er I love such things again.

I think it is self explanatory. Hence, now its turn of fickle minded women to undergo transformation. Hey, guys! now if you see a sexy woman, do think these things before proposing. Just Kidding!!!!! Relationships are based on mutual understanding and not thinking the way most of the women and men think.

She Loves me?

By Aditi | April 14, 2008 3:33 am |
Categories:
love,Relationships

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As I promised you guys, here are some tips that can help you out whether she is your lady of the dreams? The answer to this question depends on various factors. As a women’s heart is a deep ocean, even she can’t know herself properly. But we won’t leave hope. Where there is a will, there is a way.Here are some points you can look out to know whether she is in love with you:

  • She likes to give you wake up call.
  • She asks your schedule and helps you out in solving your problems.
  • She gets disturbed if you get delayed reaching home or making her a call.
  • She knows what you like the most and shows she likes it even if it sucks her.
  • She knows all the songs in order of the CD you made for her.
  • She doesn’t forget to kiss you before you leave for work.
  • She makes you look at strangers babies nearby.
  • She says she loves you even if her parents hate you.
  • She can not tolerate any other woman standing with you.
  • She asks you to choose dresses for her while shopping.
  • She likes to suggest you what to wear and tries to match your outfit with hers.
  • She calls you for no reason or just to say ‘I Miss You’.

As exceptions are always there, some girls are too shy to say even a single word. However, that lot is just one percent. Because of the changing times, moral values and lifestyle has also undergone a revolutionary change. Therefore, women also have started voicing their feelings, wants and desires.

He LOVES me?

By Aditi | April 10, 2008 3:43 pm |
Categories:
Relationships

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Hey Ladies!!!!!! Have you been wondering over this small and simple question whose answer is difficult to ascertain? “He loves me or he loves me not”? Don’t panic by plucking the petals whimsically. This answer can be found to some extent by questioning yourself and observing his habits.

Here are some common love signs:

  • He is interested to know what all you are doing and what you are upto.
  • He motivates you and inculcates confidence if you feel little low.
  • He asks about the small things that make you happy.
  • He knows your schedule and makes you stick to it.
  • He loves your pets.
  • He thinks you are beautiful even on a bad hair day.
  • He will sit with your friends even he doesn’t know them and still smile trying to show he is okay.
  • He asks you to take medicine even if you sneeze a bit.
  • He calls or sends messages even without any work.
  • He asks you about your advise on important matters.

If he doesn’t love you he won’t do the above mentioned points and do these along:

  • He will make plans and cancel them on last minute telling stories.
  • He will not be in your sight when you fell ill.
  • He won’t talk about future.
  • He won’t let you meet his family members frequently.

Guys, do not feel jealous. Just wait for some time. I will let you know how to know whether she loves you or is she mere flirting.

Am I in Love or is it Infatuation?

By Aditi | March 25, 2008 3:36 pm |
Categories:
Relationships

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A person in your neighbourhood, or in office or at your school or even at university makes you feel that you can not live without him/her. Then this question comes in mind that is this love or mere infatuation. Through my experiences I am bringing forward some symptoms that may help you determine whether you are really struck by cupid or you are yourself trying to fly with the love angels.

Look out for these symptoms:

  • Feeling panic
  • Impatient attitude
  • Uncertainty
  • Jealousy
  • Strong Lust

If these are present in you, then its just Infatuation. Besides these symptoms, you will face difficulty in concentration. An intense desire to be with them physically and establish sexual contact will hover on you. This is biological, a woman’s attraction to a man, and vice-versa. But this ain’t love.

Love raises people. The entire thought process of lovers undergoes a change. It reminds me of one of the poem by Great Poet John Donne

“Call us what you will, we are made such by love;
all her one, me another fly,
We are tapers too, and at our own cost die,”

Therefore, lovers like Romeo and Juliet are ready to die for each other. They do not give a damn to what people say. Love also makes one acknowledge the sense of care, understanding and trust. Lovers think of each other’s welfare. They try to find out what is good or bad for each other. Love can occur even at first sight. We will discuss about this Love at First sight some other time.

The Easiest Way to Be Happy

By Ksena | March 25, 2008 7:37 am |
Categories:
Influence,Relationships

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Hi, today I would like to introduce to you an Orange County Counselor, whose aim is to help people to improve their romantic and family relationships, that will last forever. It is a common knowledge, when everything in your life doesn’t work well and goes not the way you would like, you start blaming yourself and thinking that nothing in this world can change this situation.

Have you ever heard, that time is the best healer? Yeah? Great and this counselor knows this for sure as well. So, in order each client to get the best treatment possible, he limits the hours he works, thus clients get the full attention they deserve. Quality relationships are the basis of our well-being and this statement sounds very reasonable.

Continue reading The Easiest Way to Be Happy


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