When Friendship turns in to Love

By Aditi | November 19, 2008 12:09 pm |
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Relationships

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Have you even realized that often your best friend has all the qualities that you have been looking for in your partner? Sometimes being friends with the member of opposite sex, you tend to take a step ahead from friendship to love. This is where, you try to ask yourself the pros and cons of moving from friendship to love.

Moving a step ahead from friendship to love, you need to first induce a sense of affinity. In other words, you need to realize whether you really want your friend as a romantic partner or just as a friend. To do so, you should communicate openly and look out for positive signs. Also, look whether your friend is really interested in you romantically. Try to be slow while moving from friendship to love.

Remember, the process of turning friendship into love may vary for a man and for a woman. Men are not so emotional as women and might agree in haste, but women like to analyze carefully before taking a step ahead.

Extra Marital Affairs

By Aditi | November 16, 2008 11:50 am |
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Relationships

extra marital affair Are you seeing your marriage on the verge of break up owing to your spouse’s extra marital affair? Then, don’t lose hope, read on to know how can extra affairs be prevented for a happy married life. Remember, that where there is lack of honesty there is lack of commitment in a love relationship.

When tied in a marital relationship, both spouses should be honest to each other and also understand that attraction for the opposite sex members from your spouse’s side is inevitable and this should not break the trust between partners. Instead of getting fussy about your partner’s attraction towards someone else, try to have an honest talk and check the reality.

Apart from using honesty as the best policy, try not to threaten your partner in case he ditches you with an extra marital affair. It’s obvious for you to be possessive about your partner seeing a sight of extra marital affair but don’t force your partner to stick to you by threatening, as this will increase the distance between you to.

Bottom line is that though there is no guarantee of avoiding an extra marital affair, an honest discussion with a little trust and understanding can help a lot in minding the gaps between couples who are getting intrigued by an extra marital affair.

5 ways to reduce depression

By Aditi | November 6, 2008 1:19 pm |
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Relationships

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Nowadays, life has become so complicated that we have every single reason to get depressed by our surrounding. All the times, we are heavily embraced by worries and negative thoughts, which make us depressed and tensed.

This depression can carry lots of bad health problems along with it. So just to make you relax and keep you out of worries, here 5 most valuable tips are given:

1.Avoid newspaper:

Don’t raise your eyebrow by thinking that without newspaper how you will start your day. Yes, just avoid that news of the newspaper, which really upsets you. For example: — any economy loss, any mishap, bad events etc.

2 Avoid watching Television:

Well, if the good movie or any cartoon show is going on then stay tuned with this entertainment box. But again if mood-upsetting show is airing on your TV, then it’s your time to turn off or change the channel.

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How to Make a Healthy Relationship?

By Aditi | September 8, 2008 2:51 pm |
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Relationships

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A Relationship is fragile like a glass. Up till you hold it, it will look perfect adorning your hands and once it will fall; you will see it tearing into several pieces on the floor. Though, you can pre-empt the fall of a glass by holding it tight when stumbling from your hands, what about relationship? Warning signs might help you in bringing your relationship to normalcy at the last minute. And, on the first place our bond would have been strong and healthy. If you also think this way, then these tips for building healthy relationships are just so right for you.

Five healthy tips for a good relationship

Mutual respect- if both the partners respect each other, I am sure they will completely be in awe of one another. Sometimes your insecurity and fear of loosing your beloved helps you to regard your partner, sometimes it may be your basic nature to mind your spouse’s space. Respect in a relationship means to value the other person’s identity, give away to his wishes, understand your partner inside out and accept their decisions. Mutual respect is a pre-requisite for a healthy relationship. A feeling of reverence for your beloved will show you heaven on the earth.

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Six-step formula to reduce conflicts and build healthy relationships

By Aditi | August 28, 2008 12:10 pm |
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Relationships

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Wonder how some simple changes in the way we dress, talk and move can keep regular conflicts at bay. Well, these easy changes can indeed help you nurture long-lasting relationships and ensure friction-less interactions. Simply, follow the six step mantra and witness a sea-change in the way you get along with people. 

1. Side-by-side- As per a research, people like each other, agree to the viewpoint of their partner and retain what they discuss, when they sit, stand or walk sideways rather than facing each other. Two women or a man and a woman are more likely to face each other while talking and discussing, which doesn’t make them feel connected and could ultimately result in different opinions. While two men intuitively sidle, this instantly attunes them to each other. So, when you need to resolve a concern, you better bring your partner to your side.

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Myths related to Divorce busted

By Aditi | August 10, 2008 11:16 am |
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Relationships

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If marriages are truly made in heaven, then, what goes wrong? Why we end up being with a misfit? Why we are desperate to sever the most cared-for relationship on this earth? After-all why are the divorce rates heaving? Reasons may be different, but myths are the same. And we will clear the whim-whams right here right now, without asking you to pay a visit to nearby psychiatrist or consultant. Believe me pals; this doubt-clearing session will definitely help you in positive living.

If you had always blamed men for their first step to the court room, reconsider your thought. Since, according to a recent research, nearly two-thirds of divorces are triggered by women. Perhaps it could be due to the nasty behaviour of males or provisions of the divorce law. For instance, Divorces actuated by women are much lower in the countries which allow a shared custody of children with the husband, in comparison to the majority of states, where chances of winning the sole rights over the custody is higher.

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How to Stop Using Drugs and Lead Healthy Life Again

By Ksena | July 9, 2008 5:20 am |
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Influence,Relationships

To tell that drugs are awful and they cause harm… actually means to say nothing. It’s a very acute problem, nowadays. Drugs bring evil, they destroy families and lives. Each day brings new victims, new drug-addictive people … Unfortunately such addictions can’t go untreated and the first step is a willingness to recover and a readiness to take help and the next step is to consult a Drug Treatment Center.

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Recovering from Broken Relationships

By Aditi | July 3, 2008 1:37 pm |
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Relationships

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Perhaps each and every one of us has had the experience of broken relationships at least once in his/her life. A broken relationship is often associated with a broken heart or a faltered soul or with tearful eyes, is something which is always painful. And that is why the term ‘recovery’ is used to measure the tendency to combat with the experience. Recovering from a broken relationship is not that easy, because it means you are out of a so called comfort zone where you had been taken care by, dependent upon, felt content and had confidence in another person who is no longer there for you.

Another dreaded part of a broken relation is that it often happens all of a sudden without having time to recuperate you. Although it is a time bound process, yet recovering from a broken relationship actually seems to be prolonged sometimes. If you are feeling the same way, it would not be a bad idea at all to seek help. But you need to understand a few things which will help you to restore yourself. Here are a few aspects on recovering from a broken relationship:

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Perfect Soulmate

By Aditi | May 27, 2008 2:44 pm |
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Relationships

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I was listening to the song Soulmate by Natasha Bedinfield. Its lyrics are:

Incompatible, it don’t matter though
‘cos someone’s bound to hear my cry
Speak out if you do
You’re not easy to find

Is it possible Mr. Loveable
Is already in my life?
Right in front of me
Or maybe you’re in disguise

Who doesn’t long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I’m on my own
If there’s a soulmate for everyone

Here we are again, circles never end
How do I find the perfect fit
There’s enough for everyone
But I’m still waiting in line

Who doesn’t long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I’m on my own
If there’s a soulmate for everyone

Most relationships seem so transitory
They’re all good but not the permanent one
Who doesn’t long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told

Somebody tell me why I’m on my own
If there’s a soulmate for everyone
Who doesn’t long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I’m on my own
If there’s a soulmate for everyone
If there’s a soulmate for everyone

The words in the song themselves are amazing. It dined on me to share my views on a perfect Soulmate with you. Just before writing on this, I called up my friend, to ask him what he thought about Soulmate. He said, “It’s the one who loves you more than himself/herself and makes you love him/her by the power of LOVE”.

I would reiterate the words from the song “Who knows how to love you without being told”. This is indeed very difficult in real life. I would say its by luck and God’s blessings that one can really find a Perfect Soulmate.

The question is How to find a perfect Soulmate? As we know what we would like to eat when we feel hungry, we should also know what kind of a person we need in our life. This is the key to find a perfect match.

How Women Flirt? Extended Version

By Aditi | May 26, 2008 1:50 pm |
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Communication,Relationships

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Yeah! I too have like you come across guys and men who complain that they do not understand women. But, I would rather say, MEN, you don’t know how to read women. In reality, it is observed that a woman sends 5 times more sexual body language signals as compared to men. This gives you, i.e., the Men 5 times more opportunity to find out whether women are interested or not.

Men can find out a women isn’t interested by her non-verbal signs. Smiling faces with eyes looking straight in your eyes, yes, this is the indication of interest. Just after a few long glances, she will look at the ground. WoW! Too shy! Yes, It’s true. And guys admire this very much.

On the other hand if a woman stands wearing a frown on her face with folded hands, she isn’t interested.

Other positive signs include rubbing her arm or leaning little closer while conversation. Twirling her hair is also a good sign. ;)

Women are artful. They know how to play with body language. So, you need not wait for her to shout that she is interested. After all she is not a wild animal.

She may show her back, her shoulders or, chest by wearing such clothes with cuts. She may also try straightening her clothes to look perfect when she knows she’s being watched out. Her lips pronouncing gestures will let you visualize kissing her.

Watch out these and know that the girl is flirting and is interested.


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