How to avoid conflict in your love life?

By Aditi | August 16, 2009 11:27 am |
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love,Nature

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Every relationship has its share of conflicts which if handled properly certainly gives a boost to relationship. Conflict gives the chance to express your opinion as well listen to the facts which are on the other side of the book. However, inability to handle conflict can create havoc and definitely ruin your relationship. Thus, you should always try to resolve such issues before things go out of hand.

In a situation of conflict you should always try to give your partner full attention without really thinking who is at fault. You should patiently listen to your partner and verbally assure him/her that you recognize and can relate to his/her feelings. You should wait for the pain or anger to subside and listen to your partner attentively and try to create closeness and trust. By doing this, the pain and anger will surely go away without becoming a cause of resentment later.

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Overcoming Phobias: Anxiety Problems With Children

By Aditi | May 2, 2009 12:46 pm |
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Nature

depressed_20teen_20female_20minority Not just adults, even babies suffer from different phobias and anxiety problems. So, there is nothing to be a very worried about it. However, you need to know how to overcome your child’s phobias with the right methods.

Call it anxiety, phobias or anxiousness; many children start suffering from certain phobias right from their adolescent age. In fact, parents should be well aware that this a growing age and their kids are bound to face different emotions and that will include anxiety too.

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Dealing with Laziness

By Aditi | March 21, 2009 3:28 am |
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Nature

15298 Ever thought what is the biggest thing that comes as a hurdle in our way to success? Well, it is none other than our own laziness. Often we try to delay important things thinking we will do them later and the sad thing is that we never end up doing those things. So, it is important to deal with laziness in the right way.

The best way to deal with laziness is to pen down all the important works that you need to do and start doing them one by one without delay. This way you will remain active and will also feel happy after completing each work.

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How to avoid being gullible

By Aditi | February 26, 2009 1:20 pm |
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Nature

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You think till date you suffered most due to your gullible nature? If this is the case and you have determined not to let others take undue advantage of your nature, then here are some tips of avoiding being gullible.

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Dealing with Ego

By Aditi | December 10, 2008 11:37 am |
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Nature

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The word “ego” has the potential to destroy anyone’s happiness. Be it your love life partner or business partner, dealing with anyone’s ego is an art. If you don’t know how to deal with ego, you may end up losing many things. On the other hand, those who know the art of dealing with ego can emerge as winners at the end. So, read on to know about some ways to deal with ego.

Ego is the thing that doesn’t let us compromise with others and vice versa. When you see someone having too much ego, first of all avoid getting angry. Maintain you calmness to deal with egoistic people who come across you in daily routine. This is the first step for dealing with people having negative ego.

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Forgetfulness Problem

By Aditi | November 10, 2008 12:50 pm |
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Nature

Forgetfulness

Have you again forgotten to pick up your kids from school? Or doing that pending assignment? Then, forgetfulness is the thing that is making your life miserable. Though forgetting things is not a crime but when it increases with age it does irritates not only the person who forgets himself but also others around him.

According to scientists, forgetfulness is a psychological problem that is associated with aging. The forgetting change is related to the chemicals necessary for brain cells for in inter-communication. The latest findings on the subject expanded the possibility that drugs and therapies can be developed to tune up the brain’s memory to remember things.

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Something about Women

By Aditi | April 26, 2008 2:48 pm |
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Nature,Relationships

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It was pretty difficult to figure out minus points in women. Yes! You are right being a girl why would I point out mistakes in Females. But as I promised, here are some things that most of the women feel:

  • If he is protective, she says he oppressive
  • If he is smart, she says you are demeaning my intelligence
  • If he works hard, she says he is workaholic, doesn’t have time for me
  • If he is confident, she says he has ego
  • If he has a bank account, he is great
  • If he says I love You in first meet, don’t believe, he is a liar

Women think men like Govt. bonds as they take time to mature. If they lay the first step on them, they think they can walk over for the whole life. Women too feel pleasure in Adam teasing.

Here I have got one beautiful poem by Thomas Moore, the famous poet.

Women Are All The Same

Away, away — you’re all the same,
A smiling, fluttering, jilting throng;
And, wise too late, I burn with shame,
To think I’ve been your slave so long.

Slow to be won, and quick to rove,
From folly kind, from cunning loath,
Too cold for bliss, too weak for love,
Yet feigning all that’s best in both;

Still panting o’er a crowd to reign, –
More joy it gives to woman’s breast
To make ten frigid coxcombs vain,
Than one true, manly lover blest.

Away, away — your smile’s a curse –
Oh! blot me from the race of men,
Kind, pitying Heaven, by death or worse,
If e’er I love such things again.

I think it is self explanatory. Hence, now its turn of fickle minded women to undergo transformation. Hey, guys! now if you see a sexy woman, do think these things before proposing. Just Kidding!!!!! Relationships are based on mutual understanding and not thinking the way most of the women and men think.

All MEN are LiKE That

By Aditi | April 19, 2008 12:17 pm |
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Nature

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Dear Readers,

The number of views on my earlier two write ups is a proof that you people have liked what I wrote. People who know me call Love Doctor as I give valuable advice regarding love matters. In this write up of mine I am not taking side of women and I do not have any intention to hurt men. It is general behavior of men that I am pointing out. This behavior is seen usually in unmarried guys. Although I have not joined any group, I am a feminist by approach, so I treat men and women equal. However, here are some common things seen in men in their attitude towards women:

  • Treat him nicely; he thinks you are in love. If you do not, he thinks you show vanity.
  • You are Smarter; this makes him make Face. If he is Smarter, he says he is great.
  • Argue with him; he calls you obstinate. Stay quiet, you will be tagged brainless.
  • You say you don’t love him, he will do everything he can to make you admit you love him. If you say you love him, he says Good bye.
  • You say I want to marry you; he will say it is too early. He says I will marry you, even if you aren’t ready, he wants s-e-x.
  • Smoke in front of him and he says you are BAD. If he smokes he is a GENT.
  • Break a promise, he won’t trust you again. He breaks; he says I was forced to do so.
  • Hurt him, he says you cruel. If he hurts, you are sensitive.

This opinion of mine applies to 90 percent men. It doesn’t mean that there is no such man who respects women and loves them. One of these is my fiancé. He loves me and understands me. Therefore, guys do not bear any grudge after reading this. There are flaws in women too. I will hopefully bring them soon for you. The motive of my pointing these flaws is to make both men and women shed their vices and make the world a better place to live.


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