Perhaps each and every one of us has had the experience of broken relationships at least once in his/her life. A broken relationship is often associated with a broken heart or a faltered soul or with tearful eyes, is something which is always painful. And that is why the term ‘recovery’ is used to measure the tendency to combat with the experience. Recovering from a broken relationship is not that easy, because it means you are out of a so called comfort zone where you had been taken care by, dependent upon, felt content and had confidence in another person who is no longer there for you.

Another dreaded part of a broken relation is that it often happens all of a sudden without having time to recuperate you. Although it is a time bound process, yet recovering from a broken relationship actually seems to be prolonged sometimes. If you are feeling the same way, it would not be a bad idea at all to seek help. But you need to understand a few things which will help you to restore yourself. Here are a few aspects on recovering from a broken relationship:

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Depression has become a house hold term all over and it is affecting man, woman, teens, adults alike. While there are a number of medicines and drugs available as anti- depressants, their side effects are even terrible. So, rather than resorting to drugs, there are other natural ways to combat depression. The following are 4 of them. Try out and you will it works.

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Why do teens get depressed?

Teenagers today are the major victims of depression and the reasons behind this can be many and varied. If a teenager experiences a messed up home life, any divorce in the family (mostly of parents’), suffers from financial problems, breaks up with boyfriend or girlfriend; then such teens suffers from a probability of being depressed.

Symptoms of teen depression are:

• You feel guilty without any good reason

• You loose self confidence

• Life seems to be hopeless to you

• You grow up a negative attitude

• You feel like you’re dying or have thoughts about committing suicide

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I was listening to the song Soulmate by Natasha Bedinfield. Its lyrics are:

Incompatible, it don’t matter though
‘cos someone’s bound to hear my cry
Speak out if you do
You’re not easy to find

Is it possible Mr. Loveable
Is already in my life?
Right in front of me
Or maybe you’re in disguise

Who doesn’t long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I’m on my own
If there’s a soulmate for everyone

Here we are again, circles never end
How do I find the perfect fit
There’s enough for everyone
But I’m still waiting in line

Who doesn’t long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I’m on my own
If there’s a soulmate for everyone

Most relationships seem so transitory
They’re all good but not the permanent one
Who doesn’t long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told

Somebody tell me why I’m on my own
If there’s a soulmate for everyone
Who doesn’t long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I’m on my own
If there’s a soulmate for everyone
If there’s a soulmate for everyone

The words in the song themselves are amazing. It dined on me to share my views on a perfect Soulmate with you. Just before writing on this, I called up my friend, to ask him what he thought about Soulmate. He said, “It’s the one who loves you more than himself/herself and makes you love him/her by the power of LOVE”.

I would reiterate the words from the song “Who knows how to love you without being told”. This is indeed very difficult in real life. I would say its by luck and God’s blessings that one can really find a Perfect Soulmate.

The question is How to find a perfect Soulmate? As we know what we would like to eat when we feel hungry, we should also know what kind of a person we need in our life. This is the key to find a perfect match.

Yeah! I too have like you come across guys and men who complain that they do not understand women. But, I would rather say, MEN, you don’t know how to read women. In reality, it is observed that a woman sends 5 times more sexual body language signals as compared to men. This gives you, i.e., the Men 5 times more opportunity to find out whether women are interested or not.

Men can find out a women isn’t interested by her non-verbal signs. Smiling faces with eyes looking straight in your eyes, yes, this is the indication of interest. Just after a few long glances, she will look at the ground. WoW! Too shy! Yes, It’s true. And guys admire this very much.

On the other hand if a woman stands wearing a frown on her face with folded hands, she isn’t interested.

Other positive signs include rubbing her arm or leaning little closer while conversation. Twirling her hair is also a good sign.

Women are artful. They know how to play with body language. So, you need not wait for her to shout that she is interested. After all she is not a wild animal.

She may show her back, her shoulders or, chest by wearing such clothes with cuts. She may also try straightening her clothes to look perfect when she knows she’s being watched out. Her lips pronouncing gestures will let you visualize kissing her.

Watch out these and know that the girl is flirting and is interested.

I know these days most of the girls and guys are pre trained to flirt. But there are some who don’t know. You may know how to flirt but you should flirt in right way to enjoy flirting. Sometimes, flirting can get you your life partner. You would require some social skills to attract people.

Tips for Women:

• You should give clear signals. If you flirt in s-e-x-u-a-l way, you will attract men who want s-e-x.
• Soft and s-e-x-y voice will put a veil on your looks.
• If you aren’t interested just deny politely.

Tips for Men:

• Don’t every try to show you are a space invader. Girls might get terrified.
• Don’t flirt for s-e-x. Flirt to be friendly.
• Don’t boast about yourself. Ask her open-ended questions to know her.
• Don’t give false complements. Sincere complements are welcomed.

Tips for both:

• Wear smile.
• Add self-esteem
• Flirt is for fun, don’t bear grudges if rejected.
• For a start, complement on clothes, eyes or smile in humours fashion.
• Look into the eye while talking.
• Gently touch the person’s arm or hand.
• When you sense the person is taking interest, ask for a date.

I hope these will help you in healthy flirt. Enjoy Flirting..You can add more points in the comments if you like to contribute.

It was pretty difficult to figure out minus points in women. Yes! You are right being a girl why would I point out mistakes in Females. But as I promised, here are some things that most of the women feel:

• If he is protective, she says he oppressive
• If he is smart, she says you are demeaning my intelligence
• If he works hard, she says he is workaholic, doesn’t have time for me
• If he is confident, she says he has ego
• If he has a bank account, he is great
• If he says I love You in first meet, don’t believe, he is a liar

Women think men like Govt. bonds as they take time to mature. If they lay the first step on them, they think they can walk over for the whole life. Women too feel pleasure in Adam teasing.

Here I have got one beautiful poem by Thomas Moore, the famous poet.

Women Are All The Same

Away, away — you’re all the same,
A smiling, fluttering, jilting throng;
And, wise too late, I burn with shame,
To think I’ve been your slave so long.

Slow to be won, and quick to rove,
From folly kind, from cunning loath,
Too cold for bliss, too weak for love,
Yet feigning all that’s best in both;

Still panting o’er a crowd to reign, –
More joy it gives to woman’s breast
To make ten frigid coxcombs vain,
Than one true, manly lover blest.

Away, away — your smile’s a curse –
Oh! blot me from the race of men,
Kind, pitying Heaven, by death or worse,
If e’er I love such things again.

I think it is self explanatory. Hence, now its turn of fickle minded women to undergo transformation. Hey, guys! now if you see a sexy woman, do think these things before proposing. Just Kidding!!!!! Relationships are based on mutual understanding and not thinking the way most of the women and men think.

Dear Readers,

The number of views on my earlier two write ups is a proof that you people have liked what I wrote. People who know me call Love Doctor as I give valuable advice regarding love matters. In this write up of mine I am not taking side of women and I do not have any intention to hurt men. It is general behavior of men that I am pointing out. This behavior is seen usually in unmarried guys. Although I have not joined any group, I am a feminist by approach, so I treat men and women equal. However, here are some common things seen in men in their attitude towards women:

• Treat him nicely; he thinks you are in love. If you do not, he thinks you show vanity.
• You are Smarter; this makes him make Face. If he is Smarter, he says he is great.
• Argue with him; he calls you obstinate. Stay quiet, you will be tagged brainless.
• You say you don’t love him, he will do everything he can to make you admit you love him. If you say you love him, he says Good bye.
• You say I want to marry you; he will say it is too early. He says I will marry you, even if you aren’t ready, he wants s-e-x.
• Smoke in front of him and he says you are BAD. If he smokes he is a GENT.
• Break a promise, he won’t trust you again. He breaks; he says I was forced to do so.
• Hurt him, he says you cruel. If he hurts, you are sensitive.

This opinion of mine applies to 90 percent men. It doesn’t mean that there is no such man who respects women and loves them. One of these is my fiancé. He loves me and understands me. Therefore, guys do not bear any grudge after reading this. There are flaws in women too. I will hopefully bring them soon for you. The motive of my pointing these flaws is to make both men and women shed their vices and make the world a better place to live.

As I promised you guys, here are some tips that can help you out whether she is your lady of the dreams? The answer to this question depends on various factors. As a women’s heart is a deep ocean, even she can’t know herself properly. But we won’t leave hope. Where there is a will, there is a way.Here are some points you can look out to know whether she is in love with you:

• She likes to give you wake up call.
• She asks your schedule and helps you out in solving your problems.
• She gets disturbed if you get delayed reaching home or making her a call.
• She knows what you like the most and shows she likes it even if it sucks her.
• She knows all the songs in order of the CD you made for her.
• She doesn’t forget to kiss you before you leave for work.
• She makes you look at strangers babies nearby.
• She says she loves you even if her parents hate you.
• She can not tolerate any other woman standing with you.
• She asks you to choose dresses for her while shopping.
• She likes to suggest you what to wear and tries to match your outfit with hers.
• She calls you for no reason or just to say ‘I Miss You’.

As exceptions are always there, some girls are too shy to say even a single word. However, that lot is just one percent. Because of the changing times, moral values and lifestyle has also undergone a revolutionary change. Therefore, women also have started voicing their feelings, wants and desires.

Hey Ladies!!!!!! Have you been wondering over this small and simple question whose answer is difficult to ascertain? “He loves me or he loves me not”? Don’t panic by plucking the petals whimsically. This answer can be found to some extent by questioning yourself and observing his habits.

Here are some common love signs:

• He is interested to know what all you are doing and what you are upto.
• He motivates you and inculcates confidence if you feel little low.
• He asks about the small things that make you happy.
• He knows your schedule and makes you stick to it.
• He loves your pets.
• He thinks you are beautiful even on a bad hair day.
• He will sit with your friends even he doesn’t know them and still smile trying to show he is okay.
• He asks you to take medicine even if you sneeze a bit.
• He calls or sends messages even without any work.
• He asks you about your advise on important matters.

If he doesn’t love you he won’t do the above mentioned points and do these along:

• He will make plans and cancel them on last minute telling stories.
• He will not be in your sight when you fell ill.
• He won’t talk about future.
• He won’t let you meet his family members frequently.

Guys, do not feel jealous. Just wait for some time. I will let you know how to know whether she loves you or is she mere flirting.